Research has proved that men are generally good with numbers and reading but I believe when a guy is in love, he'll also be good at being observant about his mate.
Some men might not talk much but they can surprise their woman by pointing out the minutest change in her appearance. They might compliment her on a new hair style when their best friend might not have noticed it. So any slight change in their lady's appearance or even behavior will hardly go unnoticed.
Now let’s test this theory by doing a little experiment, for five days make one change a day to see how observant your man is about you.
Day One – Change your hair. Put it up, if you normally wear it down. Straighten it, if you normal wear it curly. Or put a small braid or a small clip of fake hair in it.
Day Two – Change your signature scent. If you have a favorite soap, lotion, or perfume, change it for the day. It doesn’t matter if he loves or hates it. You just want to take note that he noticed it.
Day Three – Change your routine. Go to bed early, watch a different TV show at prime-time, or even reorganize a medicine cabinet or kitchen counter.
Day Four – Wear some different jewelry or makeup. The rage right now is to paint the ring finger of both hands a different shade than the others. Give it a try. You can even put his initial on the nail of your ring finger. You can put in a fake nose ring or wear an ankle bracelet if painting your nails isn’t your cup of tea. And if you love makeup, try a new lipstick or eye shadow.
Day Five – Wear a sexier, playful, or more conservative outfit for the day. Choose clothes that are different from your normal appearance but displays another part of your personality.
You can mix these choices up or add different ones like changing your eye color, rearranging the furniture, or putting a fake tattoo on your body for the day. Each day should be one different thing so if you put your hair up on Day One, then you should put it back to normal on Day Two before you put on a new perfume.
It will be interesting to see how observant your man is but keep in mind, if you have young children at home he may be too distracted to notice most of the changes. Little ones have been known to distract many adults and take them off of their normal observation patterns.
Try the experiment and let me know if your man makes the grade. I know you’ll be surprised to learn how attentive your man really is. :)
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